Thursday, November 18, 2010

How to Stop Your Man From Cheating

Cheating can devastate almost any relationship. If you haven't experienced this yourself, then chances are you've witnessed it happen to one of your friends of family members. Getting over infidelity by your boyfriend or husband can be extremely difficult. They best way to deal with this is to stop it before it happens! Don't take your man for granted. If you want to know how to stop your man from cheating check out this video.

 

 

You man will never stray again!

Wednesday, November 17, 2010

More Thoughts on Coping With a Breakup

Coping with a breakup can be difficult for all ages, but should you really be that upset over your ex? Here are some questions I think you should ask yourself:

 

1. Could you see yourself spending the rest of your life with your ex?

2. Does your family like your boyfriend/girlfriend? Does his/her family like you?

3. Do they share similar ideas on serious issues? (Religion, kids, etc.)

4. Do they actually treat you the way you deserve?

If you find yourself answering no to many of these questions then why the heck would you be with this person? Move on! 

If you find yourself answering yes to many of these questions then maybe getting back together isn't such a bad idea. Make sure that you do this for the right reasons, however. 

All the best!

Wednesday, November 10, 2010

Another Video on Dealing with a Breakup

A lot of these videos say the same thing but I think it's important to get the point across. Almost everyone goes through the same things when dealing with a relationship break up and something you just have to hear it over and over till it sinks in.

 

 

Don't be afraid to be vulnerable and admit that you are struggling. The idea is to be better off in your next relationship, or have a successful one if you end up getting back together. You have values and gifts that someone will appreciate, do not sell yourself short!

 

Best wishes!

Ed.

 

 

Tuesday, November 9, 2010

How to Get Your Ex Back - A Case Study

I stumbled across this video on how to get your ex back and thought I would share it. TDub Jackson goes over some letters that he has gotten from people that have succeeded and failed at accomplishing this. As I have mentioned before it is pretty basic stuff. When you are getting over a breakup it's easy to think that the situation is impossible to overcome and that simply isn't the case. Here is the video, let me know what you think!

As always I know that a break up is tough, especially if you desperately want your ex back. Listen to the advice though it will definitely get you on the right track!

All the best,

Ed.

Thursday, November 4, 2010

Coping with a Break Up

Coping with a Break Up can be a tough thing to do. When you first split up it's hard to adjust to not spending so much time with that one person. A lot of your decisions were probably made based on your ex and it's easy to become bitter about the situation. You want to try to avoid feeling like this, however, because the idea is to move on. Maybe you an you ex end up back together, but not before you handle the break up the right way.
 
A lot of people feel hopeless when they are coping with a break up only because their emotions drive them crazy. You are probably feeling this right now and your emotions are all over the place. One second you're happy, the next you're sad, and then the next you're furious. This is normal but eventually you need to face these emotions head on. The best way to do this is to channel everything that you are feeling into a positive action.
 
When you are feeling angry, go workout and do some kickboxing or punch a punching bad. If you are feeling happy then go out and have some fun with friends and family. If you are feeling sad then either talk to someone or write everything down to get those feelings out. The worst thing you can do is keep everything trapped inside until you feel like you are going to explode!
 
No one said that coping with a break up is easy, but it is definitely manageable. Don't give up on yourself, know that things will get better! If you take some time for yourself and regain you Independence you will be surprised at the results. Things will start to get better an your relationships will improve along the way. If that means getting back together great! If not you will be able to move on with some peace of mind and find someone that was truly meant for you!
 
All the best!
 
Ed

Friday, October 29, 2010

How to Get Over an Ex

Learning how to get over an ex can be a rough experience, especially if you were together for a long time. Breakups often happen so abruptly that you have to adjust virtually overnight, and for most people this just isn't possible. There is hope however, people break up every day and find ways to move on. Who knows, this could have been the best that could have ever happened in your relationship. Here is some advice for getting over your ex.
 
Get rid of anything that reminds you of him/her. Usually the most painful thing about a breakup is are the memories. Keeping presents, pets, or other things around that remind you of your ex will only make the memories stronger. The idea is to move on, not cling to the past. Clear out all the clutter and treat yourself to some new things to replace the ones that remind you of your ex. This is sometimes the hardest part for people because they feel like they are giving up. Do not feel this way, know that it is necessary for you to move in the right direction.
 
Take some time to experience new things and meet new people. Relationships have the tendency to put you in a routine and often times cut you off from friends and family. Go out and meet new people or reconnect with friends you haven't seen in a while. Obviously stay away from groups that your ex may be hanging out with as well, this will only make things worse. Try to find your independence again, it will be worth it. Allow yourself to be a little selfish for once and put yourself first when making decisions.
 
Now you know how to get over an ex but you have to be willing to take the right steps. This doesn't mean that you weren't meant to be together, maybe you just need a little space. Couples often take some time apart, get back together, and end up with a stronger relationship than before. It's all about gaining some clarity and not making emotional decisions!
 
 

Monday, September 27, 2010

How to Prevent Your Man From Cheating

Have you gone through the heartache of having your boyfriend cheat on you?

This video takes a look at why men cheat, and how to you can stop it! T Dub Jackson likes to refer to it as training your man!




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